I am 27 years old now and I’ve had a few abortions. I am also a Nigerian American raised by a super religious Christian mother and father. I grew up in an African church and back then I felt like I couldn’t speak on my abortion(s) because of MY fear of being judged. Fast forward to a few years later, I’ve been able to help people face the initial fears that I had. I am at peace with my decisions. I do want kids in the future but not now. Right now I am living for myself, unapologetically.