It’s not selfish… it’s what you feel is best for you. Screw what others think, in the end you have to be there, not them.

I made the decision for my already born children. It would’ve been selfish to bring another life into the world and make all three struggle. I also made it for my health. Giving birth to my last child almost took my life. Three children without a mother… not my children. I’m ok with my decision, and I’ll never be angry with myself for making it. You must do what’s best for you and your family, and another child just wasn’t it right now. I say F*ck how people feel about it. It would’ve been ME raising another child, or potentially dying, not them. They would’ve went home and continued living their lives.