My husband and I struggled with infertility, finally after 6 years had beautiful set of twins through fertility treatment. Thinking I was still not capable of having a baby normally, did not worry about birth control.  Fast forward 4 years and I am pregnant. Though at one time may have considered having a third child, between raising twins and trying to keep my career, it would have pushed us over the edge. After many stressful conversations and weeks of emotional stress, we decided to abort. It was the best for my families well being. I am so glad it was an option available. I just wish it society would stop shaming us for taking control of our bodies and Destiny.