You know, the optional ones. The ones where choice really is about choice. I had a 1 year old baby and got pregnant unexpectedly. I’d struggled with postpartum anxiety and newborn life had been hard on my marriage and daycare for 2 in NYC would have been a stretch for us financially… none of these things in itself was impossible to overcome but all of them together… I chose my needs and the needs of my little family of 3 first and had an abortion. And I am certain that was the right choice for me.