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How it happened

by Dennyyy

June 24, 2019

I was in a on and off relationship with this one guy. I met him when I was 17 years old and he was 20 years old. However, he had ended it with me in late October of 2018 and me being me I was very sad and upset because I really fell for him I gave him my all. He made me very special but I should’ve known it was game since he was older than me. I thought we had something very beautiful because we would always spend our days together and he took me to meet his parents. When you meet the parents you know it’s serious but turns out he wasn’t serious.

New Years passes by I’m living my life single and barely able to move on because I really loved him. Then a few months passes by it’s late April and he texts me and me being me I reply. I should’ve replied because that’s the day everything happens in a blur. We continue to talk and we end up together again. It’s early May and we have sex and we have a lot of it, but I wasn’t aware I was going to get pregnant because I’ve always had issues with my ovaries and my Fallopian tubes being all types of messed. During that time he decided to end it with me and I was very sad because he did it again. Then a couple of weeks later I take a pregnancy text because I was late in my period and then it comes back negative. I’m still missing my period and then I take it the following week and it comes out positive. I immediately tell his parents instead of him because he was treating me like trash. I knew if I reached out to him he would treat me like trash. The moment I told him he got very upset because I told him in front of his parents and he was forcing me to have an abortion. I don’t like being forced to do things I don’t want to.

Keep in mind I haven’t told my mother yet….

I wanted to keep my baby I really did. But i asked myself if I wanted a baby who’s father would treat the mother like trash. He had already told me that my education wasn’t important because I told him I would continue my education after I gave birth to the baby. He said that I wouldn’t be able to. My mother didn’t find out I was pregnant until I kept having morning sickness and I had missed my period. I went to Planned Parenthood where they helped me get all the answers I needed in order for me to have a successful abortion. I got the abortion because I was not ready to have a kid especially with the father treating me like booboo.

Btw my surgical abortion was a success but I’m in pain but every girl is different.

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