After using natural cycles for five years, it finally failed me and I became pregnant on a “non fertile day”. I enjoyed hormone free birth control after years of the pill and its side effects on me. With three kids already, I made it very clear to my husband that I did not want anymore kids, and then this happened.
I already knew what my plan was. I just can’t physically, mentally, or financially handle another pregnancy, breastfeeding, and responsibility. Although my husband was upset with my choice, I felt empowered to take control of my life and say no more! My life has purpose beyond child bearing and I do not regret my choice. What does upset me is how abortion is perceived. If it had been a miscarriage, I would have been treated with sympathy instead of anger and guilt for my choice. We don’t have insurance, we’re living paycheck to paycheck on one income and I’m already stuck as a stay at home mom with a toddler because daycare is too expensive. Not to mention I’m in my late 30’s, where there’s an increased chance of twins or complications. In my eyes, my choice was beyond practical and reasonable. I’m grateful for Plan C and the online availability and privacy.
