Best decisions I’ve EVER made.

by Lizette

April 12, 2021

It’s October 2014 I had just gotten into a relationship with a guy I’ve known since I was 15. I had just started being sexually active July of that year, he was my first but he didn’t know until later into our relationship. Never thought I’d end up with him but things were great, 3 months into our relationship I found out I was pregnant. My bf and his mom were supportive and said whatever I wanted to do they’d support me. His mother was the one who gave me the info to the clinic that I went to. I took the abortion pill I had barely made the cut off at the time which was 9 weeks. My experience with the pill was excruciating, I’ve never been in that much pain in my life. I was throwing up and shitting whilst having horrible cramps. I laid in the shower over an hour while my bf was on the bathroom floor comforting me.

Fast forward to 2018 we’ve been together 4yrs now and I found out I was pregnant again. Me still not wanting kids I get another pill abortion but this time the cut off week changed to 8 weeks. I’m assuming the pill had changed over the years so I was lucky enough to make the cut off week again. This time the abortion wasn’t that bad. Still threw up and shit some but the cramps were way more bearable. A month later I went back for my check up and got the implant birth control nexplanon.

June of 2021 I get my nexplanon taken out and having those abortions was the greatest decisions I’ve ever made. I get to travel go to raves/festivals and live my life the way I want to with the love of my life. I don’t think I’ll ever want to have children of my own, but I do see myself adopting later on in my life. My bf and I have talked about him getting a vasectomy and he is all for it, so I’m hoping instead of me getting birth control again he can just get the procedure done. It makes sense because I have a breeding kink but don’t want what follows lol.

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