Happily married mom at 38 when I found out I was pregnant. I wasn’t happy about it, my kids were 12 and 14 and we were finally seeing the light, the kids were more independent and we were able to enjoy each other again. My husband and I talked about it… a lot, we decided not to have it and I scheduled an appointment with my OB/GYN to have it done. It was quick and relatively painless, and I felt peace afterwards, I knew we made the right choice for us. To this day, no one but us knows, we didn’t tell anyone.  We have no regrets.